A lady named Suzanne Andrews was aware that she suffered from erectile dysfunction from day one when her husband Glenn who is fifty three years old tried to make out with his forty six year old Suzanne.
Suzanne was unaware about the cause and cure of erectile dysfunction (ED). Her occupation had made her the anchor of a show called Functional fitness that was shown in WDSC television. Her profession made her face challenges and all she wanted was a solution for this problem that was hampering her married life.
Erectile Dysfunction – its spread
The ailment of erectile dysfunction is a widespread disease that has affected at least 15-30 million people living in USA. This disease is rampant in men above the age of forty years. This disease is defined as the powerlessness to attain or even establish an erection required for the sexual intercourse. This disease is increased by the presence of stress, depression or hormonal imbalance in the body.
According to Ira Sharlip MD, urologist in the San Francisco states that there is adequate evidence that the ailment of erectile dysfunction is one of the reasons for heart related diseases.
Cardiovascular disease and ED
Sharlip states that your husband or partner should be medically examined for any heart related disease if there is the presence of a consistent ED issue that has lasted for more than a period of ninety days.
New studies have indicated the connection between ED and a host of other disorders like diabetes, high levels of cholesterol and rising levels of hypertension. Thus a clinical check up is a must. Embarassment is one of the reasons why men shun away from medical scrutiny. If ED occurs then men would have to transform their lifestyle to prevent cardiovascular diseases to occur.
Guidelines to approach men
Bedroom talks are must for all the couples according to Marianne Brandon, PhD, clinical psychologist, sex therapist, and author of Reclaiming Desire. Discussing and talking about sexual intercourse is normal and facilitates the relationship in many ways. The man would be confident and feel at ease if the woman tries to listen and understand his problems. A patient listening and a lending ear would help.
Talking is a great way of communicating as it helps in discussing problems verbally. It may be initially complex for couples to talk about this topic but as time passes they will realize that the bedroom conversations would help them overcome their problems and frustrations.
Brandon establishes that conversations should start on a positive note hence showering praises are the best way to initiate talks with your partner. Andrews has candidly confessed that communicating her feelings about love and affability has helped her tremendously. Supporting and understanding your partner would help in solving the problem in one of the best possible ways. Hence, couples should resort to voicing their feelings and problems. Verbal conversations help in overcoming problems especially sexual problems.
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